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Officer Involved Domestic Violence - Australia

What is Officer Involved Domestic Violence?

Sometimes known as Police Perpetrated Domestic Violence.

Officer Involved Domestic Violence refers to domestic abuse or intimate partner violence perpetrated by Police Officers.

Officer‑involved domestic violence sits inside a broader reality of gendered violence: policing remains a male‑dominated institution, and most victim‑survivors of intimate partner violence are women. When sexism and misogyny are present—at the individual or cultural level—they can compound OIDV by shaping credibility, minimising harm, and reinforcing “closed ranks” responses that leave women less safe and less believed.

Many theorists believe that the reason police officers are more likely to abuse their domestic partners is because they are trained to behave in certain ways on the job, training that has the effect of making them controlling and violent. Officers are trained to develop a “command presence.” In order to maintain control over situations, they are taught to use verbal commands and intimidation meant to gain acquiescence, and/or physical force (punches, kicks, and the use of weapons) when their orders are not obeyed. Such behaviors used at home constitute a behavioral “spillover,” in which police officers treat family members as criminal suspects.

Journal of Law & Public Affairs June 2017

In the book The 'Police Wife, the secret epidemic of police violence' by Alex Roslin, he became interested in this topic when he sat in a DV group that contained, biker wives and police wives. Roslin stated he could not figure out what these two had in common? It was then he realised it was because they both had nowhere to go to keep safe.

Police wives are the most least likely victims to report domestic abuse.

What we need to know

Why is addressing OIDV so important?

Under the law it is known as 'Failure to Protect' and Under the 'Oath' it is called Police Misconduct.

When domestic violence involves a police officer, the harm can be amplified. Officer‑involved domestic violence (OIDV) is not only an intimate‑partner violence issue—it is also an issue of public trust, police integrity, victim safety, and institutional accountability.

In many cases, the greatest risk is not just the abuse itself, but what happens after a victim seeks help: when systems close ranks, minimise the violence, or fail to act. This is what many victim‑survivors describe as a “failure to protect”—when the very institutions meant to keep people safe do not respond in a safe, fair, and effective way.

How does this effect our community?

Domestic violence cannot be effectively addressed in society while officer-involved domestic violence (OIDV) remains unacknowledged and insufficiently addressed within police institutions. Police are the primary authority responsible for responding to domestic and family violence. When that authority is compromised by perpetrators within the system itself, it undermines the safety, trust, and integrity of the entire response framework.

Women are repeatedly told to seek help from police when they are in danger. However, if police stations are not safe places for victims to disclose abuse—particularly when the perpetrator may be a police officer or connected to the policing network—then the system designed to protect becomes part of the harm. Survivors of OIDV frequently report barriers such as intimidation, conflicts of interest, institutional loyalty, minimisation of complaints, and failures to properly investigate allegations involving officers. These dynamics create a culture of silence that discourages reporting and leaves victims exposed to further risk.

A policing system cannot credibly protect the community from domestic violence while simultaneously failing to address violence within its own ranks. The legitimacy of domestic violence policing depends on transparency, accountability, and the assurance that victims will be treated impartially, regardless of who the perpetrator is. When officer-perpetrated abuse is not rigorously investigated and addressed, it sends a broader message that some perpetrators are beyond accountability.

Women are not truly safe until police stations themselves are safe spaces for disclosure. Victims must be able to approach police knowing that officers will respond with professionalism, independence, and protection—not institutional defensiveness or retaliation. Ensuring this requires clear reporting pathways outside local police commands, independent oversight, robust investigations, and survivor-centred processes that recognise the unique power imbalance when the perpetrator is a police officer.

Addressing officer-involved domestic violence is therefore not a peripheral issue—it is foundational to the credibility and effectiveness of the entire domestic violence response system. If society is serious about preventing domestic violence and protecting women, reform must begin where authority and accountability intersect: within policing institutions themselves. Until victims can safely walk into a police station and trust that the system will protect them regardless of who the perpetrator is, the promise of safety remains incomplete.

What is an “invitation to collude”?

An adult who is using family violence may try to pull a professional into their version of events so the professional aligns with them (consciously or unconsciously). This is called an invitation to collude.

In OIDV, these invitations can be especially persuasive because the person using violence may be seen as credible, authoritative, calm, or “knowledgeable about the system.” That perceived credibility can increase the risk that services unintentionally adopt the perpetrator’s narrative.

Your role is to:

identify invitations to collude, and
respond in non‑collusive ways that keep engagement with the service system while maintaining victim‑survivor safety, accountability, and impartiality.

Common invitations to collude (with OIDV‑relevant examples)

1) Minimising, denying, justifying, blaming, mutualising, pathologising

Minimising: “She’s making it sound so much worse than it was.”
Mutualising: “We’re both as bad as each other.”
Pathologising: “She’s unstable—this is her mental health.”

2) Inviting empathy or adopting a “victim stance”

“I’m the one holding everything together. I do everything for her and the kids. I’m exhausted.”
“I’m being targeted. This is unfair.”

3) Claiming superior credibility over the victim‑survivor

In OIDV this can sound like:

“You can’t trust what she says.”
“I know what real violence looks like—this isn’t that.”
“I work in this space; I understand how these allegations go.”

4) Building alignment through personal connection, jokes, or stereotypes

“You’re married—you know what women can be like.”
“Come on, you get it… this is just relationship stuff.”

5) Using status, uniform identity, or system knowledge to steer the narrative (OIDV‑specific)

Emphasising professionalism, community standing, or “service reputation” to influence how the story is interpreted.
Framing themselves as the “reasonable” party while depicting the victim‑survivor as “hysterical,” “vengeful,” or “unreliable.”

What a safe, victim‑centred response looks like in OIDV

Preventing secondary abuse and by‑proxy harm requires services to prioritise:

independent, unbiased pathways (avoiding conflicts of interest)
confidentiality and information safety
trauma‑informed, non‑collusive practice
clear accountability and consistent follow‑through
support that reduces isolation, not increases it

Abuser is in Law Enforcement: “Setting you up” (framing and narrative control) Link Abuser is in Law Enforcement | WomensLaw.org

If an abusive police officer thinks you may report the abuse, they may use their authority, credibility, and knowledge of procedures to make it look like you are the problem. This is often a deliberate attempt to flip the story so the officer appears to be the victim and you are portrayed as the aggressor—sometimes with the goal of discouraging you from speaking up or increasing the risk that you will be blamed or arrested.

They may spread a carefully constructed version of events to people who can influence outcomes, including friends, family, colleagues, supervisors, lawyers, and the court.

What this can look like

After you try to disclose abuse or seek help, the officer may:

Claim the abuse was your fault, or label you as “crazy,” “lying,” “jealous,” or “vindictive.”
Insist you’re fabricating allegations to ruin their career or “get back at them.”
Report first so they are seen as the “victim” and you are treated as the “aggressor.”
Apply for a protection order against you first to undermine your credibility if you later seek one.
Engineer or allege an “incident” designed to make you look criminal or unsafe (so police action is taken against you).
Claim you are a danger to yourself or others to try to force involuntary hospital or psychiatric intervention, especially during parenting disputes.
Pressure you to leave with the children, then accuse you of parental abduction/kidnapping.